I was at a community fair recently. Beautiful event. Lots of people, booths, activity, music and a big car show. As we walked by the music stage, I heard a young man introduce his next song.  He says, ”This one is really rough. It hurts my voice to sing it. And I want you to know that it’s not long. Just keep in mind it’ll be over soon.” 

That certainly got my attention. Then he began singing, … growling and screaming really. I liken it to the sound you might hear at an exorcism. And still, hours later, all I can think is this: If you have to apologize for a song before you begin, do you think maybe you should just skip it? Sing something else?  I don’t get it.